Baby Wearing (BOOK EXERPT)

The most beneficial way to transport your baby is to wear your baby, but most Afrikans living in the West use strollers. Jane Clark, professor of kinesiology at the University of Maryland said: There was concern that Americans were overusing strollers for older children, causing toddlers to be less physically active. A growing movement among child advocates promotes the idea of carrying babies more and getting them out of their strollers.15

 

Baby wearing has many benefits. It supports bonding, reduces crying, and colic. Baby wearing provides the womb environment the baby is accustomed to. Mother and baby are in synch. The baby is able to hear the mother's heart beat just as she did while in the womb. It creates oneness and security. Baby wearing also is helpful to mothers. It allows her to be hands free while carrying the baby so things such as housework can be done. When the mother is out of the home people passing will be less likely to touch her baby.

Baby wearing is also great for potty training. Most Afrikan mothers on the continent do not use diapers on their babies. They monitor the baby's movements and gestures while wearing them. They then hold the baby over the place chosen for elimination. Across Afrika, women can be seen carrying sleeping or sometimes giggly babies on their backs, swathed in cloth. The babies move to the sway of their mother's hips, synchronized throughout the day, bending with them as they collect water or sweep the floor and rising again when the women stop to rest.15

Baby wearing is also a great tool for daycare providers. Many small babies lay in bassinets most of the time in daycare. Babies need constant touch and love. Daycare providers should consider using slings and/or wraps for the children in their care. Mothers using daycare services can ask their provider if they can use a carrier. The art of baby wearing is essential for the traditional Afrikan baby - sitter. Bringing Afrikan traditional values to the Western daycare system can provide a balance.

 

There are many options for wearing your babies. The most traditional way is using a simple piece of cloth or sarong. Many options are available if mothers desire other types of carriers. Ring slings, mei tais, wraps, and podaegis are available.

Cited

15. Wax, Emily."African mothers see baby strollers as abhorrent fad tradition of carrying children upheld; 'they can't sit like lumps." San Francisco Chronicle. 20 May 2004 4. July 2006

 

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